Still searching for your ‘real purpose’ in life? Would it make it easier on you if I told you that you already have everything you need…That your ‘purpose’ in life is not to try and change the world; your purpose is simply to interact with life in the most positive constructive manner that you can; and from that interaction life change’s will surely come; for you and for others that you have inspired through your interaction. 🙂

To the pregnant ?women blogging or on social media posting constant updates and belly pictures… I love seeing how excited you are to become a mummy.❤ To the proud parents out there posting pictures of their children or grandchildren; thank you for showing children that their loved To the ??women posting “selfies”… thanks for letting young girls know that it’s okay to love yourself and to feel beautiful!? To the food posties; thank you for sharing new recipes, new ways of eating and new places to eat???? To the ??? loving couple constantly posting “sappy love posts”… thank you for… Continue Reading »

A great relationship is not something that happens by chance; it’s something you choose to make happen. You may meet someone by chance (divine intervention – universal alignment?), but you decide whether to step up and take advantage of that chance meeting; you decide if the energetic flow feels right for you; you decide if you’ll go on to experience a loving and nurturing relationship… or if that relationship isn’t delivering what you so desire and deserve; you decide whether to stay in the relationship or move on. The meeting may have been by chance, but the rest is up… Continue Reading »

It’s a sentiment that bodes well for those that are living the idealistic view of motherhood. If that’s you, enjoy your day. Spare a thought though for those that are estranged from their children; those who’ve wanted to be mothers but are for reasons beyond their control unable; those who’s mother’s are in nursing homes and can’t remember their own children; those that are visiting their mothers graveside, or worse still those mothers that are visiting their children’s graveside. Sending blessings, love and peace to one and all. X

Some people it would seem, get irritated by some of my posts! That I’m like many others who seem “too optimistic” However, this is generalist view and usually an unfortunate misinterpretation of the difference between and optimist and an idealist. An optimist is neither naive, nor in denial, nor blind to the realities of life. An optimist believes in the optimal usage of all the available options, no matter how narrow the supply. As a result, optimistic people are able to better, see the bigger picture. They can more accurately visualize and mange the present possibilities. In other words, an… Continue Reading »

1. Sex is one of the safest sports. Making love often, strengthens the core muscles of the male and female body. Done right, it’s more enjoyable than running or swimming 20 laps in the pool and there is no need for special gym equipment either. 2. Sex is a divine remedy for depression. It releases endorphin’s into the blood stream, creating a state of euphoria leaving both women and men with the feeling of bliss. 3. Having sex relieves headaches. Every time you make love, it releases the tension in the veins of the brain. 4. Regular sex can clear… Continue Reading »

It’s amazing how far you can go when you believe in yourself; and show up as yourself!   Sounds easy, doesn’t it? However the truth is, for many it’s not! The first step in changing that truth is to acknowledge it. The 2nd step is to accept its ok to           believe in yourself. The 3rd step is to recognize that it requires Boldness and Courage to ‘             step up’ to be everything that you can possibly be.   Perhaps you’ve already made a study of this, that like many,… Continue Reading »

Amazing things can happen if you’re open to seeing & feeling things from a new perspective; if you’re able to humble your ego, trust your heart and listen to your intuition. With this open mind and heart, there is every chance that you could meet that person you were least expecting; at a time in your life when you least expected too; a person that challenges you to look at your current life status; challenges your old values and beliefs and challenges you too look at your world in a totally different light; a person that you find yourself totally… Continue Reading »

How to get the best out of the new month ahead…….Just ‘B’ B Mindful; B Grateful for all that you do have; B Loving, kind & generous with others; B Present to Nature; B Present to Loved ones & Friends; B Present to the work that you do. There are so many ways to Just ‘B’  [icon icon=icon-heart size=18px color=#FF0000 ]  

Start with appreciating what you already have and do your best with it! Recipe for Unhappiness – Comparing yourself to others; the things they do, and the things they have! Happiness is a state of mind, a choice to count your blessings and thank the universe for your life experiences. 🙂 The fact is; you’ll never be happy if you continue searching for happiness through things or from the approval of others. You’ll never be happy if you’re expecting life to deliver things to you in a precise way. You’ll never be happy if you think that life is all… Continue Reading »

I hope you’ve come to realise that when you have a loved one who you can talk to; lightly or deeply; laugh with; have intelligent conversation with; sing songs with (even if it is out of tune), do silly things with; be happy being silent in each other’s company and just holding each other – That is true love & happiness!! Oh and if the sex is great; that’s a massive, massive bonus! #JustSaying You see, as you mature and become wiser; you come to realise, that your true inner happiness does not come from the material things of this… Continue Reading »

Being your father was one of the greatest gifts I have ever been given. When you died, part of me died. Deep in the midst of my grief, I discovered that my survival depended on continuing to love you & your family. These days your family live their lives independent of each other. I no longer grieve for you or the family; instead I feel truly blessed for the time we got to share together. I continue to live; strive and love, not inspite of you having to leave us early, but because you are still an integral part of… Continue Reading »

In my opinion – It doesn’t matter what others are doing; it only matters what you are doing to make a difference to your life and that of others!